May is almost over…and so is (almost) all the shit that has been driving me crazy lately. My son graduated high school last weekend. Seriously, I still look at him and remember when he graduated preschool. Oh my has he grown. What was most beautiful about his graduation was his joy. He had a smile that just lights me up…I want to see more of that.
His graduation party was a success….again, too see a young man who was happy and smiling. I couldn’t ask for more. However, I was grateful to have a house full of wonderful people. Former coworkers, new coworker, old friends, new friends, family I haven’t seen in way to long. The day was beautiful, and the house was filled with laughter and joy. There is a long standing joke with my friends about how the weather always goes south when I plan out-door events. Not this time. I’m going to say that my shift in attitude may have played a huge role in that…for had I stayed in the darkness, the rain would undoubtedly come.
A few weeks ago I was reminded that I needed (desperately) to let go of doubt and worry. So I did. What happened was that the little twitch in my eye went away, and good things started falling into place. Things were finally aligning in a good way….because I was able to embrace the good and let go of the bad thoughts. What you think about, you bring about. I was tired of waking up every morning filled with doubt and gloom. That is a choice, just like choosing to wake up with a grateful heart.
It isn’t as though the next few months are not going to come with challenges. In just a few short weeks we will be on the fast track to getting my son ready to go away to college. There is no way for me to truly express how excited I am for him…and how hard it is for me to grasp this new phase of his life, and mine. No matter what, I will bring to this coming “adventure” (my son tells me I use that word incorrectly too much, ha!) with a positive and grateful attitude. He has opportunities ahead of him I wish I had taken advantage of when I was 18, but then if I had, he may not have been one of my greatest blessings. I’m not sure how I’m going to handle not being able to see his face everyday. Knowing that he’s not just behind his bedroom door…annoyed at me for popping in. I am blessed, elated and trying to manage the little bit of fear and loss that will surly stir once he is gone.
Even though I attribute May to having been a busy and highly emotional month for me….there is still a lot of work to be done over these next few months. Time to buckle down and get my ass back in alignment with my plans. I gave myself a break in order to deal with the self inflicted emotional rollercoaster I was on, and now it’s time to get back to the real work. Cleaning up and clearing out. That includes fear, doubt, worry as well as physical clutter. It also means focusing more on moving to a better place for work and relationships.
The challenges are not over…and it is a blessing that they never will be. What is over is allowing negative emotions and thoughts to overshadow those challenges. I’m moving forward with a renewed sense of purpose and gratitude….and that is how I will face each new challenge. Even if that challenge is simply to NOT give in to the pesky dark voices that whisper in my ear “You’re not going to make it.”
Yes I am, asshole. Yes I am.